~B~ is a coworker of a relative that lives in a few hours drive from my home.
We met one day when, while working in my relatives vicinity, I visited my relative at work. ~B~ seemed a little stricken when we first met. Afterwards I checked my fly, found it closed so I assumed her nervous fidigety reaction to my presence a positive one. I had my relative forward a message on to ~B~ and shortly afterward had a response from ~B~ indicating she would like to see me when I next came to her area.
When I next worked in ~B~'s vicinity we met at a restraunt had drinks, dinner and several hours oconversation puncuiated with laughter. At dinner's end she had to abandon coffee & desert when she phoned in a check on how with her child was doing with the babysitter. We agreed to meet again the next time I was working in her area.
The following month I was again scheduled to work in ~B~'s vicinity. I contacted ~B~ and we again agreed to a date.
Two days before I was to return to ~B~'s area my trip was canceled. I informed ~B~ apologizing for 'the chaos in my life'. She replied that she was having difficultis in her life as well and was 'not ready for dating.'
I have no clue weather she was actually 'not ready to date', upset that I was not able to make our second date or she just didn't fine me interisting.
It never ceases to amaze me that people who are otherwise good and honest people anr incapable of giving a straight answer about their own relationships.
